So here goes...I may or may not get any responses, but the way I see it at this point, I have nothing to lose. I am 35, a southern gal, blonde hair, blue eyes, 5'7, 175 lbs, size 12, never married, no kids, college educated, full time job, no drugs or smoking. Truly I am a great catch, but I am still single. I have dated and had some great relationships, but someone (sometimes me, sometimes him) was never ready for the next step. Well now I am...and therefore this is a very serious post. I am looking for my future husband and father of my children. Yes that's right, you read that correctly. So please don't waste my time or your time if you are not looking for the same or are not serious. I want to build a life with a man that will be my soul mate and best friend. We will work together to make all our goals and dreams come true. Some more requests: be single, it's ok to be divorced but please don't be involved now. Also I prefer someone who doesn't already have children, because it brings less drama from previous women, but if you do have 1 or 2, that's ok. Also, please be educated or least have a good job, nonsmoker, absolutely no drugs, age 30 to 50, and I prefer black men, but will certainly not discriminate if you feel you meet the other criteria and are as serious about finding your soul mate and best friend as I am. I am really serious about this and hope by some chance there is a man out there who has been waiting and searching for me.